Spenser, 22, grad school-bound 2013.Tumblr (3.0; @totallyrufus)http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/7c3d72bc10a59c3312a327a365a9b6e8/tumblr_ml68iingo61r2b5sbo1_500.png"/><br/><br/><p><a href="http://c-oquetry.tumblr.com/post/47831524970/nakedpixie-c-oquetry-sue-monk-kidd-this" class="tumblr_blog">c-oquetry</a>:</p> <blockquote><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://nakedpixie.tumblr.com/post/47830702609/c-oquetry-sue-monk-kidd-this-is-how-i">nakedpixie</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://c-oquetry.tumblr.com/post/47828834626/sue-monk-kidd">c-oquetry</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>- Sue Monk Kidd</p> </blockquote> <p>This is how I always knew my ex was lying.</p> </blockquote> <p>Don’t worry darl, me too.</p></blockquote>http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/47991667693http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/47991667693Sun, 14 Apr 2013 17:28:31 -0500<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5m8a2RLZT1qduem3o1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/26131469015http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/26131469015Fri, 29 Jun 2012 03:04:40 -0500<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m626ynRs9x1qlabdmo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://lacigreen.tumblr.com/post/26015293447/tomorrows-sex-will-be-about-pansexuality">lacigreen</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>tomorrow’s sex+ will be about pansexuality!</p> </blockquote>http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/26131409922http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/26131409922Fri, 29 Jun 2012 03:02:28 -0500<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5uh9p4BU71qza5p7o1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>THESE PUBLIC POOL BITCHES AIN’T REALLY MERMAIDS.</p>http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25706365111http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25706365111Sat, 23 Jun 2012 03:25:05 -0500aquababeazealia banks<iframe class="tumblr_audio_player tumblr_audio_player_25706296307" src="http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25706296307/audio_player_iframe/totallyrufus/tumblr_m5xoewradF1r612bs?audio_file=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.tumblr.com%2Faudio_file%2Ftotallyrufus%2F25706296307%2Ftumblr_m5xoewradF1r612bs" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" scrolling="no" width="500" height="169"></iframe><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://khaleesiborn.tumblr.com/post/25547346567/azealia-banks-aquababe">khaleesiborn</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>Azealia Banks - Aquababe</p> </blockquote>http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25706296307http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25706296307Sat, 23 Jun 2012 03:22:32 -0500azealia banksaquababe<iframe class="tumblr_audio_player tumblr_audio_player_25706017790" src="http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25706017790/audio_player_iframe/totallyrufus/tumblr_m5w1f6Wy8V1r0q3k6?audio_file=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.tumblr.com%2Faudio_file%2Ftotallyrufus%2F25706017790%2Ftumblr_m5w1f6Wy8V1r0q3k6" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" scrolling="no" width="500" height="169"></iframe><br/><br/><p>(1971)</p> <p>The greatest song ever written in my very limited and humble opinion</p>http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25706017790http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25706017790Sat, 23 Jun 2012 03:12:00 -0500a case of youjoni mitchell<iframe src="http://player.vimeo.com/video/32944400?title=0&byline=0&portrait=0&color=ff0000" width="400" height="224" frameborder="0"></iframe><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://rainysolitude.tumblr.com/post/20780040946">rainysolitude</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><strong>“People Talkin’” - Hurray for the Riff Raff</strong> covering <strong>Lucinda Williams</strong></p> </blockquote>http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25705641497http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25705641497Sat, 23 Jun 2012 02:58:54 -0500lucinda williamspeople talkin<iframe width="400" height="300" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/Ovn0RtO-6B0?wmode=transparent&autohide=1&egm=0&hd=1&iv_load_policy=3&modestbranding=1&rel=0&showinfo=0&showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thinkimkindagay.tumblr.com/post/24195200001/cover-of-fruits-of-my-labor-my-favorite-lucinda">thinkimkindagay</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>Cover of “Fruits of My Labor” (my favorite Lucinda song) by Ruthie Foster :) </p> </blockquote>http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25705494748http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25705494748Sat, 23 Jun 2012 02:53:41 -0500fruits of my laborlucinda williams<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m60dzcAMXd1qajtwxo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25635276801http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25635276801Fri, 22 Jun 2012 02:54:48 -0500puddin'<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m60dwgpJDI1qajtwxo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Puddin’ and me the first day we adopted him from the Humane Society</p>http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25635228160http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25635228160Fri, 22 Jun 2012 02:53:04 -0500puddin'orange kittycatadopted<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m60dtcvjcw1qajtwxo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Now that me and Justin have Puddin’ in our lives it seems like I’ve joined a secret club only cat owners belong to…I view things so differently, as strange as that sounds—especially around the house.  He’s such a sweet pumpkin, but loves to play.  I lurve him!  </p>http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25635173991http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25635173991Fri, 22 Jun 2012 02:51:00 -0500first petorange kittyPuddin'<iframe width="400" height="225" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/83lo7OqruJI?wmode=transparent&autohide=1&egm=0&hd=1&iv_load_policy=3&modestbranding=1&rel=0&showinfo=0&showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://lacigreen.tumblr.com/post/25601534972/heres-my-sex-guide-to-having-safe-pleasurable">lacigreen</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>here’s my <strong>sex+ guide to having safe, pleasurable butt sex</strong>!  leave your taboos at the door :P</p> <p>remember:</p> <p>-butt sex should <em>not</em> hurt.<br/>-lube! lube!  more lube!<br/>-never go straight from anus to vag<br/>-only do it if <strong>you</strong> want to<br/>-everyone has a butt!  anal play is not inherently “gay”</p> <p><3</p> <p>(Sex+: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=83lo7OqruJI">Laci’s Guide to BUTT SEX</a>)</p> </blockquote>http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25634812018http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25634812018Fri, 22 Jun 2012 02:39:04 -0500<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5vv5kYvvh1rqbgb7o1_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5vv5kYvvh1rqbgb7o9_r1_500.png"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5vv5kYvvh1rqbgb7o3_500.png"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5vv5kYvvh1rqbgb7o4_500.png"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5vv5kYvvh1rqbgb7o5_500.gif"/><br/> <br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://lacigreen.tumblr.com/post/25462225801/whats-wrong-with-boobs-anyway-our-culture">lacigreen</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>what’s wrong with boobs anyway?  our culture demonizes, sexualizes, and stigmatizes what would otherwise be just another neutral body part.</p> <p>FREE THE BOOBIES</p> </blockquote>http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25634328312http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25634328312Fri, 22 Jun 2012 02:23:41 -0500<iframe width="400" height="300" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/MXMeMstVAhE?wmode=transparent&autohide=1&egm=0&hd=1&iv_load_policy=3&modestbranding=1&rel=0&showinfo=0&showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><br/><br/><p>I’ve always had a soft spot for Dixie Chicks…and I think Natalie Maines’ voice is spectacular</p>http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25590699111http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25590699111Thu, 21 Jun 2012 14:16:39 -0500cowboy take me awaydixie chicks<iframe width="400" height="225" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/dom7VlltBUc?wmode=transparent&autohide=1&egm=0&hd=1&iv_load_policy=3&modestbranding=1&rel=0&showinfo=0&showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><br/><br/><p>I have blasting this for the past week</p>http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25590372956http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25590372956Thu, 21 Jun 2012 14:11:21 -0500wide open spacesdixie chicks<iframe class="tumblr_audio_player tumblr_audio_player_25562474277" src="http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25562474277/audio_player_iframe/totallyrufus/tumblr_m5w9b0zHx41qmolgg?audio_file=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.tumblr.com%2Faudio_file%2Ftotallyrufus%2F25562474277%2Ftumblr_m5w9b0zHx41qmolgg" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" scrolling="no" width="500" height="169"></iframe><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://whidavrho.tumblr.com/post/25477754829/1991-azealia-banks">whidavrho</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>1991- Azealia Banks</p> </blockquote>http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25562474277http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25562474277Thu, 21 Jun 2012 01:55:52 -05001991azealia banks<iframe width="400" height="300" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/f766STmVefo?wmode=transparent&autohide=1&egm=0&hd=1&iv_load_policy=3&modestbranding=1&rel=0&showinfo=0&showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><br/><br/><p>I dig this song so hard—it’s so good</p>http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25561506510http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25561506510Thu, 21 Jun 2012 01:29:57 -0500azealia banks1991<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5mjwdr1ZL1rr7prso1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5mjwdr1ZL1rr7prso2_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5mjwdr1ZL1rr7prso3_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5mjwdr1ZL1rr7prso4_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5mjwdr1ZL1rr7prso5_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5mjwdr1ZL1rr7prso6_250.gif"/><br/> <br/>http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25561337431http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25561337431Thu, 21 Jun 2012 01:25:36 -0500<iframe width="400" height="300" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/CPaXn2XR-P8?wmode=transparent&autohide=1&egm=0&hd=1&iv_load_policy=3&modestbranding=1&rel=0&showinfo=0&showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://azealiabanks.tumblr.com/post/25109655049/video-azealia-banks-liquorice">azealiabanks</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>VIDEO: AZEALIA BANKS - “LIQUORICE” </p> </blockquote>http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25561332645http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/25561332645Thu, 21 Jun 2012 01:25:29 -0500<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1ywj0Kgx71qfdi4co1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/20615083561http://totallyrufus.tumblr.com/post/20615083561Fri, 06 Apr 2012 17:41:23 -0500lara stone